How may I mentor someone toward preparation for church work?
Step 1 – Build a relationship
Spend time together. Build trust. Just talk about life. Enjoy breakfast and/or lunches together. Don’t rush this step. Get to know each other. Relax. Play. Get together with some regularity.
Step 2 – Make some agreements
Agree to spend a whole day together at your work. Show them exactly how you prepare for a confirmation class or Bible class. Take them on a visit to the nursing home. Have them sit in a meeting with you (e.g., choir practice, council meeting, local association). Find out their interests—music, helping people, reading. Encourage them to participate, e.g. sit with you during worship; if a pastor, sit by you as you lead worship; acolyte; crucifier; observe a baptism or holy communion from your perspective.
Step 3 – Develop your partner (s)
This is the longest step. Set some definite things to accomplish in the next three months or six months. Help them toward fulfilling their life interests and goals. Select development activities for them. Maintain regular contact.
Step 4 – Review your relationship
There comes a time when you evaluate together what you both have learned, celebrate some accomplishments, and plan for the future. Help your partner toward preparation for a church work career if it seems appropriate—visit a school, seek other persons in the same area of interest and/or desire, make contacts and guide them. Keep in touch, but perhaps not as regularly.