Holding Tanks with Pizza?

Thursday, April 7, 2011 by Glen Thomas

An interesting article in the Huffington Post provides a Q/A session with Drew Dyck, editor of online publications for Christianity Today, and author of the recently-published book, Generation Ex-Christian: Why Young Adults Are Leaving the Faith ... and How to Bring Them Back.

Motivated by observing his friends who had or were in the process of leaving the Church, Dyck researched why young adults are severing ties with the Church at an alarming rate. He provides helpful descriptions of patterns and categories of people he observed during his research, while cautioning that no two "leavers" are exactly the same:

Postmodern leavers reject Christianity because of its exclusive truth claims and moral absolutes. For them, Christian faith is just too narrow.

"Recoilers" leave because they were hurt in the church. They suffered some form of abuse at the hands of someone they saw as a spiritual authority. God was guilty by association.

"Modernists" completely reject supernatural claims. God is a delusion. Any truth beyond science is dismissed as superstition.

"Neo-pagans" refers to those who left for earth-based religions such as Wicca. Not all actually cast spells or participate in pagan rituals, but they deny a transcendent God, and see earth as the locus of true spirituality.

"Spiritual Rebels" flee the faith to indulge in behavior that conflicted with their faith. They also value autonomy and don't want anyone -- especially a superintending deity -- telling them what to do.

"Drifters" do not suffer intellectual crises or consciously leave the faith; they simply drift away. Over time God becomes less and less important until one day he's no longer part of their lives.

 

Most intriguing to me was Dyck’s indictment of the youth ministry he observes in many churches. Quoting church researcher Ed Stetzer’s description of most youth groups as "holding tanks with pizza," Dyck concludes:

 

There's nothing wrong with video games and pizza, but they're tragic replacements for discipleship and catechism. Many young people have been exposed to a superficial form of Christianity that effectively inoculates them against authentic faith.

 

That’s quite an indictment! Is it accurate in your observation and experience in Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod congregations?

To be sure, youth ministry involves both spiritual and social aspects. It is probably helpful for each congregation to reflect upon the emphasis in youth ministry it provides - social/entertainment versus spiritual nurture. It would also be reasonable to conclude that these factors impact the likelihood that young people will contemplate serving in vocations such as pastor, teacher, DCE, deaconess, etc. - a major emphasis of the What a Way initiative.

 

In a separate interview on Ed Stetzer's blog, Dyck offers the following solution:

To stem the tide of young people leaving, I believe churches need to shift the emphasis away from an entertainment model and back to religious education and spiritual growth. Fortunately, there's evidence that this is already beginning to happen. My friends in youth ministry are acutely aware of the problem and changing the way the church relates to the younger generation.

Your comments are welcomed!

Comments for Holding Tanks with Pizza?

Thursday, April 7, 2011 by Jackie O.:
"Authentic Faith" - I like the idea... what it means to each person/leader is different. But I agree with most of the thoughts in this post. There are more "boxes" to put leavers in than listed, but it's a good start.
Thursday, April 7, 2011 by LCMS Bystander:
How would the LCMS interpret Dyck's recommendation in light of its fascination with the Church Growth Movement?
Friday, April 8, 2011 by Dr. Keith Schweitzer:
One of my youth ministry "strategies" is substitute teaching in our local middle and high schools. I seek to have engaging and genuinely important discussions in the classroom. This has led to students seeking me out to ask their questions about the Lutheran faith. At this point, I invite them to our divine service. I have had many truly wonderful and meaningful encounters with teenagers this way.
Friday, April 8, 2011 by The Terrible Swede:
Higher Things is a possible solution.

"To stem the tide of young people leaving, I believe churches need to shift the emphasis away from an entertainment model and back to religious education and spiritual growth. Fortunately, there's evidence that this is already beginning to happen. My friends in youth ministry are acutely aware of the problem and changing the way the church relates to the younger generation."
Tuesday, April 26, 2011 by Bob Smith:
One piece of advice given by Rich Bimler over 25 years ago was (paraphrased): Youth Ministry should be both a subjective and objective genitive. It should be ministry to youth and ministry (in the broad sense) by youth. Youth are not the future of the church, they are a part of the church right now. So, why not invite them to be members of boards, either as apprentices or, if the nature of the board warrants and the skills of the person good, a regular member of the boards. Have them make shut in visits with worship service recordings, meet the physical needs of people suffering to show the mercy of Christ, be Sunday school teachers, etc. What teens and young adults crave is to be taken seriously and to serve. Of course, if they do, they will also see the need for study of the Word. So we do serious engagement with them on that score as well. But don't forget the pizza!
Tuesday, April 26, 2011 by Randy Keyes:
The problem is not "entertainment vs. non-entertainment." I think both Mark Holman and our own Ben Frudenburg have hit on our problem: Families don't have faith active during the week. The problem is not the congregational altar. The problem is the family altar. Parents do not see Christ as relevant to how they live their daily lives and their children are simply taking that to it's logical end and dumping it all together. Building faith@home is the issue.
Grace and Peace,
Randy
Tuesday, April 26, 2011 by Dan Barz:
Ongoing Ambassadors for Christ clearly points youth to Christ as they study God's Word together, sing Christ-centered songs, and share the Good News of Jesus through a neighborhood canvass, dramas, puppets and personal witnesses.
Wednesday, June 15, 2011 by Thom Lakso:
I recently shared with the congregation that I serve that LSC was written as the head of the household should teach it. That Holy Communion could be as early as eight with instruction and confirmation at 18 if people took Luther's advise. I don't know Luther's motivation, but if families took time in the LSC, kids would learn to read and memorize, families would spend time together, and the Word could could be first in the family. The church would become a place to hear the Word, partake in the Sacraments, and fellowship with one another. Oh, the 18 year old confirmation would come at a time when young people are considered adults by the world. They are leaving for college, for the military or off to work this is a time to remind them of their baptismal vows/
Thursday, August 18, 2011 by Glenn Meyer:
Slotting people into categorical groups helps show how diverse our world is today. Our approach to youth has shifted several times in response to the dynamics of the group. Dominant kids can move the whole group. Those that attend OAFC weekends experience the most change to seek and live a deeper faith. There's rarely one answer, but different ideas spark insight into what might work -- so we try something. It is worth a try when the stakes are heaven/not heaven.
Thursday, September 8, 2011 by Tysen Bibb:
Parents not giving Christian instruction at home or modeling the faith to their kids is one problem. A focus on entertainment over education is another problem. What are the solutions? If families took 10 minutes a day to read/discuss Luther's Small Catechism that would be a start. Church isn't the priority it used to be for many families. An increasing number, unfortunately, treat church as one of many options for how to spend their time. Our culture pushes the idea that everything has to be entertaining to be worthwhile. Pray for more families to respond like Joshua, "But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD." - Joshua 24:15

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